Random Ramblings of the Roaches

Random Ramblings of the Roaches

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

House of Babies

Our house has become babyfied.... everywhere we look it just screams "we have kids!"...  Man have the times changed from when we didn't have any... and our stuff is showing the wear and tear from it too... good thing we didn't buy any of it new and didn't plan on it lasting for forever or being nice for long.  Even the cats helped to break things in before the kids came around.  Someday, perhaps, we will get nicer new stuff... but perhaps not even then because once the kids are gone, then come the grandkids.  Good thing I remember that it is just stuff and that it doesn't really matter in the eternal scheme of things.  What matters eternally is our family.
These precious babies are a gift that Heavenly Father has allowed for me to experience.  Someone told me once that: "Heavenly Father allowed for you to have children because He knew that you would be far happier with them than you could ever be without them."  Deep words...  No, not every moment is one of joy and gratitude for being a mother.  But in the quiet, calm peaceful moments, or the times filled with squeals of delight followed by deep belly rooted laughter, those are the moments that I feel to glimpse a piece of heaven.  I recognize right then that this is why it is all worth it.  These are the joys of motherhood that need to outweigh the demands, stresses and exhaustion that comes with fulfilling this role. 

Whoever said that being a stay-at-home mom was easy and wasn't really "work" has obviously never tried it.  Reminds me of that country song: "Being Mr. Mom"... I just love it!  Moms do soo much on a daily basis that get taken for granted all the time.  If only we could get paid for all the different job roles we fulfill: cook, day care, nurse, psychologist, therapist, home cleaner, laundress, seamstress, etc... the list goes on and on.  When we got Eric his life insurance the guy he was talking to on the phone asked if we were considering getting some for me.  He then went on to say that if I (stay-at-home mommy) were to get paid for all the work that I do it would equate to easily over $100,000 yearly salary.  Wow!!  That really put things into perspective for me.  Staying at home raising children really is one of the most important "jobs" that a woman can do on this earth.

Don't get me wrong, I totally still have my worldly ambitions that I hope to accomplish one day.  I would love to go back to school and get graduate education... in something (probably human body related).  I would love to have some kind of lucrative career where I can find great fulfillment every day.  But not right now.  Right now I get to spend almost every second of every day taking care of 2 adorable babies. Funny how life turns out. 

So yes, I am a stay-at-home mom and our house has been extremely transformed with baby stuff. Everywhere I look I see evidence of our kids' existences. And now that Gabriel is mobile, he gets into everything (as a baby should).  We have been slowly baby proofing our house with outlet covers, cabinet door locks, magnetic locks and a child fence.  We even put in carpet padding this week so that when he falls off the couch he won't hit his head as hard.  I can only imagine what more trouble he will get into once he can walk... eek!  Thankfully that day has not arrived just yet.  Here are some pictures to give you a glimpse of what I see everyday.  Welcome to my world :D



Lunch time

This is on a good day
Notice the cat water on the rack out of reach of little grabby hands
We had to upgrade from regular bookshelves to closed door cabinets
Stroller is in the kitchen, ready to go at a moments notice
Child locks yet to be installed
Someone loves the camera
Love this Gubs!
 
Hooray for childhood magnets, wonder how many are under the fridge?
Bibs, bottles and bottle rack... oh yeah!



The cat food provides extra fiber for Gabriel's diet... hehehe


Hooray for bath toys
Custom made towels with hoodie for each kid - thanks Nana!

Gabriel/Mikaela's room with diaper changing station #1

Mikaela's diaper stash... should last us oh... 3 months ;)

Thank goodness for Ikea
Our nifty baby corner of the master bedroom
Diaper changing station #2
Cats make for good company during naptime
 

One of the infamous Wubba-Nubs floating around our house.. there are 5 or so in total
If I were Gabriel this view would make me very happy too

Friday, July 25, 2014

June 2014

The month of June flew by.  I was busy trying to recover from giving birth to Mikaela and adjust to my new role of being mom to 2.  Yet, that didn't stop us from having a lot of fun at the house and with family.  Never a dull moment with 2 babies, that is for sure. 

So, here is a big photo/video dump of all our fun activities for the month of June.

My dad was in town for Father's Day.  I "surprised" both of them with Italian Ties for the occasion.
Like I said, "surprised"...
Speaking of Papi, we have lots of fun whenever he was in town.  We love playing with Papi and just spending quality time together.


Gabriel and Papi playing with a racquetball

Mikaela and Papi

Gabriel also got to play a lot with daddy too.


We spent a lot of time with family.  Mikaela got introduced to everyone during her first month on earth.  What a wonderful blessing living so close to our loved ones.

Amber, Kevin and Mikaela
Jason, Ellie and Mikaela
Seth, Connie and Mikaela
We even had a special visitor one Sunday afternoon, our niece Jocelyn.  She came up with my mom to hear Eric sing in the Roach Family Quartet.  I love being in the aunt position so as to spoil someone else's kids.

Talk about spoiled
Even Mido got in on the action
Not certain how Raggio felt about being left out on the spoil train.




Towards the end of the month we even got to celebrate the 8th birthday of our nephew Jake.  Lets see if you can spot Gabriel enjoying the fun too hehehe.


Gabriel was able to keep himself entertained while Mikaela was drinking in the limelight of being the "newest baby".

So proud of himself for climbing into the swing
Bringing back the shoulder pads!
Here he is showing off his musical skills:

 

Loves the camera
Not only can he make music but he just genuinely seems to enjoy it and likes to get his groove on:


Thankfully Gabriel's musical talent didn't keep Mikaela up during her naptimes.  Only her Acid Reflux did that... not fun.  So we got her a nifty wedge pillow to try and help her to sleep.

Snug as a bug
Here's the set up in the pack 'n play
Naptime is a semi-regular occurrence around here... if only the kids wouldn't tag team taking shifts so that I could join them.  Even the cats get join... but not me.
I think she enjoys the pillow, at least it seems to help some of the times.  If for nothing else, it kept her from getting a bald spot on the back of her head.  I love her hair and that she has so much of it!



I hope it doesn't fall/thin out too badly in the next couple of months.  Even still, I will still find her beautiful and will love her.
Selfie
Gabriel didn't let his own hair stop him from enjoying some lasagna.
 

All in all June was a good month.  Lots of fun memories.  I think we are all looking forward to our many adventures to come.
Cute Kids!